ok, zach keeps refusing to eat all his meals, he was great a few days ago but now he's gone back to not finishing, i'm not putting too much out and he wasn't going through a growth spurt last week or anything, im a bit annoyed though. also he's always had a dummy on the theory that you can take a dummy away and that they are specialy designed not to damage teeth where fingers do (damaged my entire skull to suck my middle finger as a child!) anyway, he's needing his dummy less and less which delights us but he tries to suck his fingers instead, except he doesn't, he sticks them down his throat until he's heaving! its stupid! how can i make him stop?!