well my dad died when i was 12 that was soooo hard....i also lost both sets of grandparents................we then had my sister in law suffer 3 still borns .......then she had a son who then died age 6 mths from cot death...then in 2000 my mom died in the june .........my uncle in the dec and then in the following march my other uncle..........sometmes its soooo hard to think about but i found losing both my mom and dad the hardest xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx